Discussion On A Solution
Only 15% is actual bonafide attention.
The rest 85% is either wrong or not correct, but was made to seem as correct and forced upon. Joining to force 85% of wrong or skewed stuff led to problems. A break in relations.
The 35% that seems right was handled wrong. Made into something it was not. Thats what I mean by 'forced'. Again chasing everyone I spoke to was not a positive activity but a harmful activity. Destroying relationships. Something wrong (part of the 85%).
I need not elaborate on the 45%. Every which way was attempted to destroy me. Work, Personal, Friendships, Finances, Looks, everything.
The 5% - I was hardly doing much. Baseless allegations. It was quite odd to be told I'm doing something wrong when I'm talking G to someone else! Then they slapped a quarantine on me with no real action on my part.
The 15% that is right and original, of that its a mixed bag. It's one-sided. Only sex related. If you switched it to a girl doing the same, after a few days it seems offensive. However good or interesting, You would be offended the girl only referred to sex talk. And I was bothered and offended, the references were only sex related. All the time, every time. Moreover, doing the same 15% back openly led to heartbreak. So promoting 15% as mainstream was again not correct, not good for anyone. Hence while there was some positives in the 15%... even that led to heartbreak. Hence very early on I told her to pull out of it. It's destructive.
15% mostly positive with a warning / caveat (leads to heartbreak)
85% mostly negative.
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If I would break down the 15% further
3% was actual creativity, partly because of his English was not good and while learning new words he pieced them together sexually. Part creativity, part English learning.
12% was sexual demands - I want sex or action from you in its many different forms, mostly publicly, while although can be seen as thrilling in some ways, led people to accuse him of cheating openly. The worst outcome of this was his marriage being stressed for doing it publicly.
So the amount of actual creativity that can be continued with people who like it : 3%
This can continue. And he can continue to make his name out of it.
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Note: Addendum
To be fair, fear of the 12% sexual demands was regarding my circle, but other women liked the 12% of sexual demands. So considering those women, we add 12% as a positive, not a negative.
But of that we remove 3% for my circle (you cannot make sexual demands to my circle, that is wrong and leads to war), hence 9% of sexual demands outside of my circle is positive.
3%+9% = 12% can continue.
ie.
==> 3% actual creativity
==> 9% sexual demands that women like
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But if you place such a person as someone to be emulated... with 88% of mostly wrong-doing, breakups, and fear...
Everything goes south.
Hence everything went south.
Caution: This can lead to adverse effects on a marriage.
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